You like her. She likes you. You date. And Things are great. U plan on telling your friends soon. There’s no judgment both of you are comfortable. It seems just too good to be true. Maybe it is. Or maybe its not.
All you know is that you cant see her for 2 weeks. All you know it’s that everytime you see her you’re just gonna fall for her even more..
She’s your girlfriend. You’re the boyfriend and no one could change it.
But it doesn’t feel that complete… There’s something missing. You can’t put your finger on it but it is. So you start overthinking everything and end up losing it.
Overthinking… Its something that plagues everyone at some point. We cant even help it. But what we are always supposed to remember is that
Overthinking just kills your happiness. And thats about all it does for you.
If you’re a chronic overthinker. Dude. Just relax. Stop thinking soo much. Dont focus that much on playing a scenario over and over in your head. Focus more on living it in real life. All of that mental skipping is just gonna make you feel like shit at all points.
I have this habbit and sometimes it gets ugly. It starts with someone replying late and ends up with her hating me.. In my head.
Ask the people i know they’ll completely vouch for this. Just stop overthinking people. It’s all for your own good. Especially people in 12th right now. The boards will not define who you are for the rest of your life no matter what anyone tells you.